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知道真正喜欢一个人是怎样的感觉吗？
闭上眼睛感受对方的唯美、温柔，亲密
今天我们将从心理学角度来看待喜欢一个人是怎样的感觉
以及如何培养这种感觉

1.彻底了解（好奇、急迫）
当喜欢上一个人
你会开始好奇他的一切
你会忍不住去彻底了解他
有关他的信息
他在想什么都会让你惦记
甚至一个和它相似的名字
你都不会放过，在你心里，它是特殊的存在，整个世界都变得普通
每天醒来最关注的是手机、QQ消息，它的每一个表情、消息都引起你注意，你的回复总是没完没了
无法隐藏自己的好奇心，它的每次出现总是让你激动，心跳加速，甚至呼吸急促
太希望了解对方，刻意将自己表现的更完美，其实更需要流露的是真实的你
在了解对方的过程中毫不吝啬自己的赞美之词，这是在暗示对方，我喜欢你的优点

2.独自占有（负担）
真正亲密的男女关系一定是相互占有的
分享是决不允许的，独自占有是一种忠诚
你希望每时每刻都呆在它身边成为它的影子
并且占据它内心的绝大部分。你随时随刻都希望知道他在想什么，你认为自己很了解对方，一旦对方的意图让你陌生，你会开始紧张，因为你失去了对对方心理的掌握。其实总是知道它在想什么，你反倒会变得愚蠢，占有感带给了你心理负担，你会忽略享受这段喜欢的过程。
你经常会莫名其妙的笑，只允许自己拥有这种美好的感觉
占有感放大了你的幸福感，同时也放大了你的失落、失望情绪
它的笑容总能带给你欢喜，那一刻属于你，安静而唯美

3.入侵（性）
当你对一个异性感兴趣，首先会有身体接触的冲动，无论是拥抱还是接吻，这种接触可以带来心理重合，你属于我，你是我的一部分。
心理学家认为，重合心理是男女关系延伸的最终结果，真正喜欢上一个人，心理倾向是将两个人视为一个人，你入侵对方身体的过程，其实是自我入侵，在你看来，你和它心理上完全重合，对对方的好奇心是探索欲的心理释放

4.理解、尊重
心理学家认为，人与人之间的陌生感导致焦虑情绪和紧张感产生，深入沟通的过程可以消除焦虑，甚至是健全人格。心理学区分情绪和情感，快乐是人类期望下的情绪体验，期望满足焦虑才会消除，你喜欢它，对它有更多的怜悯和同情，这是你们深入沟通的基点，情绪低落的时候，想起了它，有亲密的感觉，因为它愿意为你分担。你不会发短信、打电话，打扰对方的休息，只是更多的想念和担忧。健康的男女关系，双方互相会有尊重和欣赏，对方带给你独特感
喜欢情绪
心理学家认为，喜欢是一种情绪，缺乏理解的喜欢是不健全的心理，学会外在控制情绪的同时健全人格，才能真正体验喜欢一个人的感觉，在你看来喜欢一个人的感觉是怎样的？神奇小小，期待你的留言
How does it feel to really like a person? Close your eyes and feel each other's beauty, tenderness,

intimacy. Today we'll look at how it feels to like someone from a psychological perspective and how it

develops.

1. thorough understanding (curiosity, urgency)

When you fall in love with someone, you start to be curious about everything about him, you can't help

but get to know him thoroughly, and everything he thinks about will make you think about him. Even a

name similar to it, you will not let go, in your heart, it is a special existence, the whole world has

become ordinary.

Every day wakes up the most concerned is the mobile phone, QQ news, its every expression, news to your

attention, your response is always endless

There's no way to hide your curiosity. Every time it comes out, it makes you excited, your heart beats

faster, and even you breathe faster.

I want to know each other and make myself more perfect. In fact, I need to show you the truth.

Not stingy with your own compliments when you get to know each other. It's a hint that I like your

strengths.

2. occupy (burden) alone

True intimacy between men and women must be mutual possession, sharing is never allowed, possession

alone is a kind of loyalty. You want to stay around it every moment and become the shadow of it and

occupy the vast majority of it. You want to know what he is thinking all the time. You think you know

the other person very well. Once the intention of the other person makes you unfamiliar, you will start

to be nervous because you have lost the psychological control of the other person. In fact, always know

what it is thinking, you will become foolish, possession brings you psychological burden, you will ignore

to enjoy the process like this.

You often laugh inexplicably, only allow yourself to have such a wonderful feeling.

Sense of possession magnifies your sense of happiness and magnifies your disappointment and

disappointment.

Its smile can always bring you joy, that moment belongs to you, quiet and aestheticism.

3. invasion (sex)

When you're interested in a heterosexual, you first have the urge to make physical contact, whether it's

hugging or kissing, which can lead to psychological overlap, you belong to me, you're part of me.

Psychologists believe that overlapping psychology is the ultimate result of the extension of the relationship

between men and women. Really like a person, the psychological tendency is to treat two people as a

person, you intrude into each other's body process, in fact, self-invasion, in your view, you and it

completely overlap psychologically, the curiosity of each other is the psychological release of the desire to

explore.

4. understanding and respect

Psychologists believe that strangeness between people leads to anxiety and tension, and the process of in-

depth communication can eliminate anxiety, even a healthy personality. Psychology differentiates emotions

from emotions. Happiness is the emotional experience of human expectations, and anxiety is eliminated by

expectations of satisfaction. You like it and have more compassion and sympathy for it. This is the basis

for your in-depth communication. When you are depressed, you think of it and feel intimate because it is

willing to share it with you. You do not send text messages, phone calls, disturb the rest of each other,

but more thoughts and worries. Healthy relationship between men and women, mutual respect and

appreciation of each other, the other side to give you a unique feeling.

Like emotion

Psychologists believe that like is an emotion, lack of understanding like is not sound psychology, learn to

control emotions while healthy personality, can really experience like a person's feelings, in your opinion,

like a person's feelings? Amazing and small, waiting for your message.

How does it feel to really like a person? Close your eyes and feel each other's beauty, tenderness,

intimacy. Today we'll look at how it feels to like someone from a psychological perspective and how it

develops.

1. thorough understanding (curiosity, urgency)

When you fall in love with someone, you start to be curious about everything about him, you can't help

but get to know him thoroughly, and everything he thinks about will make you think about him. Even a

name similar to it, you will not let go, in your heart, it is a special existence, the whole world has

become ordinary.

Every day wakes up the most concerned is the mobile phone, QQ news, its every expression, news to your

attention, your response is always endless

There's no way to hide your curiosity. Every time it comes out, it makes you excited, your heart beats

faster, and even you breathe faster.

I want to know each other and make myself more perfect. In fact, I need to show you the truth.

Not stingy with your own compliments when you get to know each other. It's a hint that I like your

strengths.

2. occupy (burden) alone

True intimacy between men and women must be mutual possession, sharing is never allowed, possession

alone is a kind of loyalty. You want to stay around it every moment and become the shadow of it and

occupy the vast majority of it. You want to know what he is thinking all the time. You think you know

the other person very well. Once the intention of the other person makes you unfamiliar, you will start

to be nervous because you have lost the psychological control of the other person. In fact, always know

what it is thinking, you will become foolish, possession brings you psychological burden, you will ignore

to enjoy the process like this.

You often laugh inexplicably, only allow yourself to have such a wonderful feeling.

Sense of possession magnifies your sense of happiness and magnifies your disappointment and

disappointment.

Its smile can always bring you joy, that moment belongs to you, quiet and aestheticism.

3. invasion (sex)

When you're interested in a heterosexual, you first have the urge to make physical contact, whether it's

hugging or kissing, which can lead to psychological overlap, you belong to me, you're part of me.

Psychologists believe that overlapping psychology is the ultimate result of the extension of the relationship

between men and women. Really like a person, the psychological tendency is to treat two people as a

person, you intrude into each other's body process, in fact, self-invasion, in your view, you and it

completely overlap psychologically, the curiosity of each other is the psychological release of the desire to

explore.

4. understanding and respect

Psychologists believe that strangeness between people leads to anxiety and tension, and the process of in-

depth communication can eliminate anxiety, even a healthy personality. Psychology differentiates emotions

from emotions. Happiness is the emotional experience of human expectations, and anxiety is eliminated by

expectations of satisfaction. You like it and have more compassion and sympathy for it. This is the basis

for your in-depth communication. When you are depressed, you think of it and feel intimate because it is

willing to share it with you. You do not send text messages, phone calls, disturb the rest of each other,

but more thoughts and worries. Healthy relationship between men and women, mutual respect and

appreciation of each other, the other side to give you a unique feeling.

Like emotion

Psychologists believe that like is an emotion, lack of understanding like is not sound psychology, learn to

control emotions while healthy personality, can really experience like a person's feelings, in your opinion,

like a person's feelings? Amazing and small, waiting for your message.